Becoming Secure
A six-week journey into healthy love
Why do you keep choosing the same people?
In this six-week journey, we will gently explore:
- Your attachment style
- The relational cycles you repeat
- Why your nervous system is drawn to what feels familiar
- How chaos can feel like chemistry
- Why safety can feel “boring” or unfamiliar
- And how to retrain your nervous system to settle into peace
You don’t go for unhealthy relationships because you’re foolish.
You go for what your body recognises.
Your nervous system is wired to recreate what feels known — even when it creates anxiety, instability, or emotional distance.
In this group, we will uncover:
- Why you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable partners
- Why you may over-function, over-give, or over-pursue
- Why you may withdraw, shut down, or avoid vulnerability
- How attachment wounds show up in dating, marriage, and friendships
And most importantly…
We will begin building secure attachment from the inside out.
This Is For You If:
✔ You are single and want to date for security instead of anxiety.
✔ You are married and want to build a more secure bond
(This is not for abusive marriages. If there is active abuse, this group is not an appropriate support.)
✔ You want healthier, more secure friendships.
✔ You are tired of repeating the same relational patterns.
✔ You want to feel calm in love instead of constantly activated.
✔ You want to grow into secure attachment — not just understand it intellectually.
What You’ll Experience Over 4 Weeks
- Teaching on attachment styles
- Understanding trauma bonds and activation cycles
- Breaking repetitive relational patterns
- Learning emotional regulation skills
- Building internal safety
- Practicing secure communication
- Faith-integrated reflection and grounding
This is not about blaming your past.
This is about healing it.
This is about becoming secure — so that love no longer feels like survival.
The Goal
To help you:
- Stop recreating chaos
- Learn to love in steady, consistent ways
- Get used to safety
- Build relationships rooted in peace
- Become secure — from the inside out
Because secure love is not something you find.
It’s something you build.
A Six-Week Journey into Healthy Love
Date: 20th September (meeting every Sunday for 4 weeks)
Time: 7:30 PM (UK)/2:30 PM (ET)
Location: Zoom
Register today and get a free copy of my ebook: Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts