Every problem has a solution, but no problem has a perfect solution.
Sometimes when approaching problems, we apply a range of techniques. Some of these are designed to sabotage any chance of a resolution. This might sound counterproductive to a decision but sometimes some people do not want closure. Some individuals like the idea of being in perpetual crises.
Sometimes the on-going pressure means that someone will come to their aid.
Family values
Sometimes cultures within certain families mean that individuals will apply specific solutions to certain problems. When those techniques don’t work, then it could feel like the problem is unsolvable.
To solve problems you have to be ready to apply a range of techniques that can help you reach a solution that is agreeable to you. Prepare to learn new strategies and explore different avenues.
Fear
Fear will also stop you from exploring different options, fear of what the future holds, and fear of the outcome at times prevents people from applying creative solutions.
No problem has a perfect solution
Thinking your questions should have an ideal solution could potentially exacerbate the situation. It might stop you from approaching a position with an open mind and prevent you from being flexible. The perfect solution might be the one where compromise and negotiating takes place. What is right for your friend may not be an ideal fit for you. You are unique, and therefore the solutions to your challenges will be tailor-made for you.